Ever wondered why men cheat? Well, there are a number of reasons from insecurity to lust and sexual deprivation. However, one of the primary reasons men eye another woman is the way their women talks to them. The tone of your voice and the words you use could be an enormous factor in determining if your man cheats on you or not.
But is it possible to stop a man from cheating merely by the way, you talk? The answer is an outstanding yes. Below I take brief look at how you should be talking to your man to keep his eyes on you.
Talk to him with a warm smile... It's important to laugh and giggle with a guy you like when you are talking to him. Just bring a sparkle to your eye even when there is no reason to do so. Men love it when their women are happy. In fact, your guy will find you irresistible if you talk to him with a beautiful smile and he will be forced to keep his eyes on you.
Talk to him in a coy and graceful manner... Women adore chivalrous men and men have loved women who speak in a flirtatious and elegant manner. Make no mistake; there is a vast difference between being timid and being coy. There's no problem in twiddling your hair as you talk to your guy. Have cute expressions and look him in the eye whenever you talk. Make the adorable "Aww" sound when you speak to him.
Touch him as you talk... Men are always attracted to a woman who is talking while touching them tenderly. In fact, studies have shown that guys will almost start showing spontaneous interest in a female who will flirt and touch them in the middle of a chat. Once in a while, touch his palm, the edge of his shoulder, his forearm or any other place that can be reached casually.
You may not know it, but such touches are an incredible recipe to increase his interest in you. As his interest grows, so is his love for you and that reduces the chances of him ever cheating on you. Remember touches are an excellent way of turning a partner into a soulmate.
Tell him you want his protection... In an ideal world, women are supposed to be vulnerable and in need of protection from men. While your guy may know this, telling it to him makes him more responsible for your security. Now, nothing makes a man more proud than being able to protect his woman.
Protection here does not mean physical protection only, but shielding your heart against the pain as well as protecting your love, in general. When you seek your man's protection, you are telling him that you trust him to take care of you.
Play hard to get... Contrary to what most women think, playing hard to get keeps your man following you instead of driving him away. Men are not attracted to women who are so easy to get. The next time you talk to him, give him a hard time at first. The more you do it, the more his curiosity increases. Once a man realizes that getting you is not as easy as he initially thought, he will treasure you more when he wins you over.
Talk dirty... Yes, men love dirty talk and the more you do it, the better. Be your man's "slut" in bed, and his eyes will always be on you. One thing that makes dirty talk so powerful is because it gives you a chance to discover his hidden secrets and desires. Once you know what he wants in bed, satisfying him is easier. A man will hardly cheat on a woman who treats him like a king in bed.
Keeping your man off other women is as simple as talking to him in the right manner. It is all about making yourself his heart's desire. It is about becoming more than his friend. If you know how to talk to your man rightly, you can be sure he will be yours.
